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  Bedrooms: 3
  Bathrooms: 2
  Sq. Footage: 1,198
  Year Built: 1987
  Garage Spaces: 2
  Type: Residential
  MLS® Number: 368



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I’m With. . .er? (Politics in 2016, and how they forced me to confess my past)

Let me begin by first confessing the worst sin a moderately liberal female can commit in this election year: I am not necessarily ‘for’ Hillary Clinton. I know, sacrilege. Here I am, PROUD ally to the LGBTQA community, with three incredible sons I’m raising to recognize those important things like: informed consent, gender nonconformity, freedom of speech, and so on. . . but I just don’t feel that passion. I didn’t care for Bernie, either (although he grew on me in the end).

I’ve followed this election with a curiosity I’ve not dedicated to prime time television since Tori Spelling and her family graced the Bravo network every week. Just loved that show – shout out @therealToriSpelling, stay strong Mama!  ❤ Don’t judge me. Haters.

Anyway. . .I have watched this whole mess unfold with horror. Debating my very conservative work colleagues on things like rights, semantics and bathroom laws, trying desperately to maintain friendships with people who are just passionately for a republican ticket that would de-humanize my son and take away all the precious rights he was just on the cusp of being old enough to really enjoy. (Like, gasp, getting married to the love of his life – someday! God knows, that should be the most basic of all human rights, but ask Mike Pence. . . he wouldn’t even give my boy a job, never mind domestic happiness. . . )

Here’s my point. I’ve watched, and questioned. I’ve mostly kept my opinions to myself about Hillary Clinton, because she is just so clearly the lesser evil in this scenario, for a person with my person belief system and basic human values. BUT, during the debate last week I noticed something significant. Not only was I struggling with the PTSD I have carried since my divorce in 2004, but I was heavily relying on those soothing techniques normally required for pick up and drop off with my ex, or a particularly challenging therapy session, only I was sitting comfy on my sofa wrapped in my favorite blanket, listening to the way Trump was speaking at and over Clinton. Why was I feeling so shaken? So unsafe?

Being fairly private, I have never shared the truth about my past on social media. Many mutual friends know my ex husband, and while our child together is not currently on social media, I’m sure he will be someday. He knows, but it just isn’t the same as reading about my personal feelings about it in depth and without filter. So, I’ve stayed quiet.

Until I noticed other domestic abuse survivors also mentioning their struggles with the debate. Until I saw friends reaching out with sarcasm and hope intertwined, looking for understanding. Until I saw women I otherwise respected, mocking people for feeling triggered by Trumps very personality. Mocking those that have survived emotional, physical, sexual abuses. Mocking me.

So, I created a silly but poignant hashtag for myself and others to use while watching the debate. It lightened the pressure, created a feeling of one-ness, and you know what? It was shared out, and appreciated. I received messages from more than one friend who related deeply to the same level of discomfort I had felt while watching that disgrace of American politics.

And then that was mocked as well.

There was no hesitation. I shared out an article found on Huffington Post Women later in the week, and in my post shared all of the very personal reasons why I cannot ever support Trump, or anyone like him.

Because in my first marriage and in the courtship leading up to that marriage, I was abused in every way a woman can be. I had warning signs. I had lovely friends who staged a full blown intervention, begging me to break it off both while we were dating and later once we were engaged. On the day of our wedding, my mother offered to drive me three hours north to hide at my grandmother’s summer home! I listened to no one.

I was 19 then. Now, at 35, I still cannot be in an enclosed space with him without getting dizzy and feeling the same levels of internal panic I did 16 years ago when I was his wife. The body doesn’t forget. It may be worse for me, because I was just SO clever about my disassociation that I actually didn’t process most of the abuses until just over the past year or so. It’s been an intentional thing, learning to stay in my feelings and ride out the fear and grief, and I am proud of that work.  It’s because of that grueling effort that I am unbelievably offended by the callousness and cruelty of these supporters mocking women like me, who have struggled to overcome – and who struggle to live with the constant anxiety that is left over even after escaping.

It wound up being incredibly freeing, to share that side of myself. Why should I keep his secrets, after all. So thank you, 2016 election cycle. You’ve taught me many, many lessons – tremendous lessons. Mainly disappointing and disheartening lessons about my fellow Americans. There was one good thing that I learned through all this chaos and discord -that I’m not alone, and I don’t have to be ashamed.

Judging women for how they’ve fought to overcome their battles is  for the weak, and the hard-hearted. That has just never been my style  ❤ Vote for whomever you believe is best for our country, and if you must mock the other side – let’s at least agree to keep domestic abuse out of it. Unless you’ve walked the path, you have no business making light of it.







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Emotional Chaos: The last 35 years and counting.

When making life choices, I seem never to take the easiest path to anywhere. From choosing a middle school out of my district (because who doesn’t want a clean slate. . .at eleven years old?), to choosing to keep the baby I conceived whilst losing my virginity, to marrying a man I knew I wasn’t in love with because the man I was in love with wasn’t ready to marry me. Yet. (We’re married now! But, I digress.) The trend has not ended with age and wisdom. Nay, for me the whole “you are at eighty who you were at eight” appears to be SO. Very. True.

“She’s imperfect, but she’s kind. . . she is all of this mixed up and baked in a beautiful pie”- Sara Bareilles, The Waitress

My oldest son moved away a few months ago. This is normal life-stuff. He is nearly nineteen and a freshman in college. Of course, he moved away. However, eight days before he moved five hours north of where we live, my family and I sold the home he was raised in and purchased a brand new home on the other side of town. Eight. Days. That’s what I gave myself between two life-changing events. Have I mentioned, I am not very good with change?

As it turns out, neither is my son. So, here we each sit. Disheveled and unsettled. Anxious yet excited. Proud of our accomplishments, and sorely missing the joy of sharing those successes with one another. Parallel experiences, making each moment of growth that much more bittersweet. You can’t be a mere sixteen years apart without some degree of healthy (?) codependency. I find comfort in this, whatever his future therapist may say. . .

Jesse and I, Boston 2015, to see Natasha Pierre at the ART

Now, more than a full month later, everything still feels wrong. Half-finished. Paused. Tonight we had tacos for dinner. Without Jesse.  Tonight I tucked my children in and hugged each one goodnight before climbing into bed. Well, two of my three. Because there is now always someone missing. Always one chick fallen out of the nest. Now instead of walking through their rooms on my way to sleep just to see that they’re safe and sound, I have to text and hope that he responds before I fall asleep. Or worse, I have to make myself not.

I don’t care what anybody tells you. When the nest starts to fall empty, it really, really sucks.


Maybe if I’d waited to move out of the home he grew up in. Or maybe if we’d moved into this new home just a little bit sooner, so he had more time to leave his mark here. In this way, when I wallow my biggest wallow, I find my mope to be intolerable. I know women who have lost children. Cancer. Car accidents. Suicide. Mine just went to college ~ it’s every mom’s dream! How dare I?


Let me share a little secret with you ~ everybody has their own hell. I have been lucky enough not to have suffered the loss of a child. Well, that’s not true. I’ve lost several, but all in the womb.  My point ~ I am not so shallow that I don’t see how insensitive this can be to those that have suffered the unimaginable. It’s just that because I haven’t. . .because I was given this gift of seeing my son grow into an incredible person; a brilliant, compassionate, talented person who I genuinely enjoy and admire, when he’s gone it leaves such a void in my heart. In my day. Please don’t make me apologize for that. I know I’m lucky to have him at all. The thing of it is, that doesn’t make me miss having him around any less. . .

So, I cry sometimes. I mope often. I play the piano, and I miss my son’s voice after school every day.

When does that get easier?

   Just a boy and his Mom. . .               (circa 2007)